The curse of the TWW…

I’m around 5dpo (maybe 4 depending on different apps’ coverlines) and there is absolutely no question that I am in the TWW because my boobs are frigging hurting – and don’t I know it! Shoulder boulders, jugs, melons, the girls, hooters, baps, mammaries, Bristols, tits, funbags, breasts… whatever they are called they are a DAVE … More The curse of the TWW…

Thankful thoughts

I have many friends on Facecbook and through my blog in the TTC community who are American and in honour of Thanksgiving today, I dedicate the theme of this post to them. A thread started on our secret Facebook group last night about things to be thankful for despite the lows of this journey and … More Thankful thoughts


I was thinking earlier that there are a few people now who know me and Dave personally and know about this blog. I have no problem with this whatsoever (I’m a frank and honest person and my friends know that the stuff I write in my blog is no different to what I would say … More Privacy


That is, Bitch On Heat Syndrome. I have just come out the other end of my time suffering BOHS and so my poor husband and his penis are safe again. Just about. BOHS isn’t something that really afflicted me before, until over the past 18 months since coming off the pill back in April 2015. … More B.O.H.S.

Like an ugly model, you ain’t never gonna make that test into something it’s not

I am, of course, talking about pregnancy tests. I don’t care if you have an A* in GCSE Photography or the skills of Mario Testino. It matters not. If you are not pregnant then YOU ARE NOT PREGNANT. Doing any of the list below will not change a BFN into a BFP. 1. Looking at … More Like an ugly model, you ain’t never gonna make that test into something it’s not